Manners are free and first impressions will always last!!!

I went to the Metrocentre yesterday, its a big shoping centre in Gateshead Newcastle, its a nice place full of the usual suspects (shops), I went to pick out a dress as im getting married in May and just want a nice dressy dress to wear (im not into all this flowing ivory diamante bling satin meringue stuff for gods sake I used to climb trees as a kid and was called George!!)
The thing I love about shoping is theres always cake involved somewhere and im lucky enough to have a man who likes it too.
It didnt take long before I had spotted a cafe and had coffee and cake in my hands, I had carrot cake if anyones interested, the cafe was in the little village looking place (not sure of the name) I think the actual name of the cafe was Sweat treats or near enough that when cakes involved my brain isnt, its the one with the water wheel that no longer works. Fab cakes recommended to everyone and my beloved happily agreed.
I didnt get a dress I think its the wrong season so I will wait, but my beloved did spot a nice potential suit, and also a pair of work pants this was in Debenhams, I had been given a voucher from a nice girl at work just incase I saw a dress, alas I didnt but my beloved did want those trousers, I tried to use the voucher but was sadly rebuffed by the cashier stating that it was a concession purchase and the voucher was only for Debenham items, I did say well which is which and she said you will have to ask, Now im not a genius but Debenhams mainly consists of Concessions am I not right?, you have an example
Coast
Topman
Jane norman
Wallis
so I didnt really have a chance did I what a con so everyone read your vouchers from top to the very small print that you may need a magnifying class to read I could have searched the shop high and low but who can be bothered with that so I went to good old Peacocks and bought some tops for my hooneymoon instead.
On the way back to our car I wanted a Kentucky I do love the chicken Ive never tasted it like that anywhere else nothing beats a nice toasted wrap (keeping off bread what with the IBS, cake doesnt count by the way not to me anyway)
As we got served a girl assistant asked to no one in particular does anyone want served, it was obvious we were but was it as she then shouted out
CAN PEOPLE NOT JUST SAY YES OR NO ITS NOT LIKE ITS ROCKET SCIENCE
nice or what I just looked away I thought OMG what a little cow my beloved chuckled he thought it quite amusing but also offensive

I think people are getting ruder and ruder I used to work in shops I remember being dragged off the shop floor and humiliated by my boss for eating chewing gum at work, I dont think men are much different (by that meaning ruder they dont seem to have changed) after all I remember a man holding a door for a lady with a box and she yelled at him
I CAN MANAGE IM NOT SOME WEAK LITTLE WOMAN YOU KNOW
god hark at her I thought just no need for it I bet the bloke now slams doors on women.
Another time was in M & S there was noone maning the changing rooms so I just walked in only to have a woman screaming
YOU CANT GO IN THERE WAIT WAIT!!!
I remember stoping and thinking ok calm down, the woman handed me the disc with how many clothes on it then decided to snatch it back and instead marched me to the dressing room and practically threw me in it I was like holy crap how rude and I think I muttered it to her but she was bigger than me so best not to make it worse I thought.
A cafe I was in I asked for two coffees and you would have think I had went to her house and crapped on her bed, the look was just frightening, I then went on to ask for two cakes the look was like I had killed her dog as well. during all this she never spoke a word to me or my beloved.
One of my pet hates is when you are looking for help and you find two assistants and they are chatting once in a Newlook shop I heard
DID YOU SCORE WITH THAT LAD LAST NEET
AYE HE WAS A MINGER WASNT HE
YOU WERE MORTAL LIKE
AYE TRUE FEEL LIKE SHIT TODAY LIKE CANT BE ARSED

shame isnt it to go on like that in changing rooms that were quite full.
A frequent one is also
HATE THIS SHITE JOB WANT ANOTHER ONE THE MANAGERS A WANKER/TOSSER/TWAT
most of us do but me personally just moan when im at home as in todays climate someone would happily take your job off you so remember guys its not cool to end up on someone elses blog.